Thursday, 24 January 2019

Let Go - What Does It Really Mean?

Letting Go So You Can Be Who You Came Here To BE:

So, letting go! This is purely the definition as I understand it in this moment in time. 

It has taken me a long time to be able to understand how to 'let go' and what it really even means. It's a term we hear banded about all over the place and considering the education branch of my business is called Let Go & Sell Art, it's about time I got this straight in my own mind! Ha! 
For me though, 'Letting Go' has been a movable feast, letting go without really letting go, and a gradual process. I'm a hanger-on-er, an over thinker, a what-iff-er!

What has just hit me, however, is this statement: I LOVE to write! And bare with me, there is a link.

I didn't always, and it hasn't always flown so easily. I have this blog to thank for the fact that writing has become an important part of my job and my practice as an artist. Just as important as drawing. 

You see, the thing is that I never thought I could write (see this previous post). I had told myself I couldn't and that I wasn't very good at it. Sometimes what we actually need to do is LET GO of the resistance we are putting in the way to fulfilling our potential.

Now, it’s very easy for someone to say  ‘let it go,’ but often we hold onto objects, feelings, relationships and situations through fear. 

What if we let go and it all falls apart, or we are discovered?

I have recently come to understand ‘let go’ as actually letting go of any attachment to a specific outcome. 

The only control we have is to imagine what we want to achieve, and then take inspired action to make it happen. 

Now for the part which requires an open mind: Universe and spirit will create thousands of ways to make our desired outcome come towards us. In order to get your head around this concept you must be open minded and let go of a desire to control and mould outcomes. 

If you set out the intention, for example, that you want to become an illustrator; you must then go on an adventure and look for the signs and the opportunities that start to spring into place. And they will. 

This is when your ego will likely jump in and tell you that you cannot do it. 

It will think of a million ways to stop you because it wants to keep you safe. 

This is the battle. 

Letting go of the control.  Listening to your ego but not being controlled by it but also, not forcing your outcome of BEING an illustrator right now

You are one already, and you will become one. You are enough right now in the hear and now. Just as you are. Let go of what you think it will afford you, of the attention that you will receive as a result. Just love what you do and find the joy in it everyday. 

Is it something you would do everyday, all day and not even get paid for? If it is then that is what you should be doing (but, just because you would do it for free doesn’t mean that you should). 
If not, then be honest with yourself about what your true passions are.

Let go, and watch it flow.

No idea, or thought or desire is too big, or too stupid. There is always someone out there who needs to hear what you have to say or to see what you have created. You will feel it in your core, your stomach, solar plexus and chest if it is a delicious idea and you will move mountains to get your thoughts out into the world. 

You are here to enrich us with your expression and creativity.

If you would like help with this there are a number of places you can access to get help through my courses and mentoring. Visit my facebook page Let Go & Sell Art and my closed group Born Makers where I encourage you to reconnect with your creative calling. 

I'm currently building my online school platform where I will be teaching what I have learned over the last 10 years - which is when I started this very blog! - so stay tuned for that.

Lots of love 

Fi x

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Here's a little look at some Valentine's Day products I currently have stocked in my shop.
These fun, hand painted decorations say everything you need to tell your special someone just how you feel.

Available now along with some other nautical themed gifts in my shop. Link at top of page xx

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Saturday, 4 November 2017

⭐️Can you feel the power?⭐️

It's powerful stuff!

You may feel it calling to you, even though you haven't got a clue which creative outlet will let you shine your light. 

When I finished my drama degree, I was obsessed with writing a play, only I didn't have a voice - I had NOTHING to say. I kept a folder with ideas in and the start of scripts but I never wrote more than 2 pages of any! I could think of situations and characters but not a story or what was going to happen, yet I still felt compelled to try. I started to question my intellect, telling myself stories that I was the least academic member of my family, that I was thick, that I was failing! I told myself that because spelling isn't my forte I couldn't write - yet I'm writing this right now, indeed writing is now surprisingly to me, a large part of what I do. 
And yet, even though I was pretty horrible to myself in the inner voice department; that little spark of creative power didn't give up, it always shone through, the drive to make things and draw was always there - even at the hardest times. 

Especially at the hardest times. 

When it came to writing it was as if I was completely clogged up. My soul knew I had a voice in there but my ego put every obstacle in the way to prevent it from becoming a reality. 

 But allowing yourself to feel it and (even harder) do something about it is a big challenge for all of us. 
Part of me, for a long time, didn't feel like it was really possible or that I truly deserved to allow myself to be happy doing something I love! Perhaps something bad would happen if I fully 100% indulged in what I truly needed to do? 
What I needed to do turned out to be embracing myself and my creativity and not to apologise for it. I got to this  realisation through returning to painting and less expectedly receiving coaching - by addressing a whole package of self care options. Taking back some control. 

The unexpected 'Brucey Bonus' I got from allowing myself to try lots of creative pathways, was that I was reunited with myself because of my creative searching and my explorations outside my comfort zone - where all the good stuff happens! I grew to like, no LOVE and accept myself again. I don't want to dwell for too long on when I stopped liking and loving myself but it's important to say that I did.

But choosing a life as a creative isn't an easy choice, especially if you are ambitious and goal driven ( code for tough on yourself). 
What I am coming to understand more and more is that it is in the ACT of making and creating where the JOY happens, it's in the PROCESS, nestled right in the middle of the DOING.

 And that's why I feel so passionately about helping women reconnect with their creativity. It's one thing to crave a creative life or career (what are we really craving? A glamorous title? A fantasy that only exists for the few?) - but the reality can be tough, it's hard to make a living solely by being an artist or creative; it is possible but the reality is that you will probably need a part time job too - which is fine, but just factor that it, at least until you hit the big time!

Whilst a creative career isn't a certainty (I have days where I question my choice believe me) what is CERTAIN is that who ever we are, we all have access to beauty and creativity if we choose to EXPLORE, LEARN, WORK AT IT and ultimately GROW. And I believe it is GROWTH which is the ultimate reward.

Being creative is completely free and at the end of our fingertips. It's a gift.
Access isn't restricted to a select few, although it probably can feel that way. 
This enrichment can then be applied to all areas of life. For example, I didn't know that the act of drawing an illustration after the birth of my daughter would lead me here where I'm embarking on training to do a coaching qualification. 


Art and creativity should enhance life, they shouldn't take away from it or make us sad. That's not its point.  

It was during my MA in fine art that I became acutely aware that each one of us on the course was working through some personal issue. And that's because life and our creative impulses are so intertwined and connected, when we make art we tap into our true selves.

Your soul's purpose is shining through right now, even if you can't feel it. That's your power

If you want to find out more about reconnecting to your creative purpose then I would love you to join the creative conversation over on facebook in my group Create, Make & Shine ⭐️ xxx

©fionameakin 2017

Saturday, 16 September 2017

A Mum Who Draws #1

"Then it dawned on me. Have I been sort of hiding?! Have I been waiting for a 'better day?' "

April Showers

I'm sitting in the front porch at a little table that I'm renovating. It belonged to my grandma and is covered in sheets of paper with my daughter is drawings on. It is raining outside. True 'Manchester' drizzle. My little girl is standing at the top of the drive in the rain. But, despite my best efforts to advise her that we should wait for a 'better' day, she's not perturbed.

"Come and buy a drawing!" She calls. "Drawings for sale. They're one of a kind!" 
I think we have a natural sales woman here!

My heart is bursting with pride at her guts and natural enthusiasm. She is only 6 and so brave to put herself out there! Would I do it?! Am I trying as hard as she is?

The one problem is that she hasn't made a sale...yet. Charlotte's showed up but where are her customers? It's Good Friday. People are lying in. People are tired. It's raining...many factors are at play.

On reflection, what a good example of the pit falls of business.

If you're struggling to maintain a steady flow of customers maybe it's because the conditions aren't right? And also if they don't know you're there how are you going to sell to them?

So, after about 20 minutes and hearing "I'm getting FRUSTRATED now," from the top of our drive I felt it was time to gently explain that maybe there was a reason. That it wasn't that people didn't LIKE what she was selling. Actually there WAS no one there to like them.

I suggested that when it was nicer weather we would set out a stall at the top of the drive with a nice table cloth and some bunting and we would tell the neighbours we know well.

Light bulb moment! There are some (common sense) but actionable points I can follow in my own work.

Firstly, be more VISIBLE.

Secondly, make your work more ATTRACTIVE - i.e. know your target market.

And thirdly, and perhaps most importantly - MARKETING/ADVERTISING.

Then it dawned on me. Have I been sort of hiding?! Have I been waiting for a "better day?"

I couldn't have asked for a more vivid illustration of how it sometimes feels to be carving out a living as an artist than what my gorgeous daughter was showing me. The childlike optimism of creating. The knowledge that you have something important and special to contribute and that you're part of a larger, creative community.

Sometimes it feels like you are standing out in the rain shouting 'Buy my work. You won't regret it!' Whilst you and your work become steadily soggier! ;)

Now, this isn't intended to be a rant or a moaning post. I don't want you to feel sorry for me, or yourself (if you're on your creative journey) I think it's just a really good example of not giving up and made me question why, as adults, can we be so fearful?

So thank you beautiful daughter for giving me a wakeup call, a reminder to get my welly boots and waterproof on. To slip the illustrations into a water proof pocket and stand there anyway!

I guess you never know who will walk by?

I've recently set up a facebook group called Create, Make & Shine, for women wanting to reconnect with their creative roots. I will be teaching and offering free and paid resources and group programs there. It's a supportive space, where women are exploring the possibilities around their creativity and creative careers. We would love to see you there!

Fi x

p.s. We quickly got inside to avoid the worsening rain. Charlotte was fine after a cuddle and a hot chocolate and, of course, we are going for round two when the weather improves/we send flyers to the neighbours! :) We'll keep you updated!

(All content copyright Fiona Meakin 2017. This is an excerpt from my blog series 'A Mum Who Draws.')

Monday, 4 April 2016

Make It in Design - Module 1 2016

It's been AGES since I posted. It has been a busy time and I decided to take some time to develop my portfolio, invest in my professional development and generally get a bit organised.

I have just finished ABSPD Module 1, in which I have begun the journey of developing my characters and illustrations into surface pattern designs. The course is simply a MUST if you are considering a career in design. I can't recommend it highly enough. I will write in more detail later, but for now here is my piece for the typography competition that was open to module 1 alumni.

I create character-led illustrations primarily for the greeting card and children's markets so my quirky character I drew for this piece compliments my style. I learnt how to layer up my work and create pattern repeats using Photoshop.

Here's a link to the Make It In Design website 

Friday, 1 May 2015

National Stationery Week 27th April - 3rd May 2015

In celebration of National Stationery Week, I am re-posting a blog post from a little while back, on the importance of traditional means of communication. In case you didn't know, the national event is on until the 3rd of May. Why not send a letter, card or postcard using traditional 'snail mail' instead of a text or tweet?

Here is a sneak peek at one of my latest card designs available at the Fi&Me shop


Last Saturday morning a postcard addressed to my 2 year daughter fluttered onto our door mat. It was from her Aunty and Uncle (or Aunty and Ankle as she calls them!) How exciting!

Although not addressed to me, this card was right up my street – the star of the postcard being a teddy bear in various locations around Cornwall (check out my Monkey Tour blog post). This image whisked me back to my childhood, remembering that Lucy always used to like sending these kinds of postcards to her school friends.

During her holiday, Lucy and I have been in regular text-message contact, but what could have been said in a text message was lovingly and carefully written onto paper instead and this is what is so important.

What’s more, it gave my daughter an exciting surprise. It was probably only the 3rd piece of mail addressed solely to her. She has had an introduction to the importance of written social communication!

I hoard my old cards, postcards and letters, because they are so special to me and this is why I began creating my own greetings cards originally.
It is also why at Fi & Me we choose to leave our greetings cards blank inside because quite frankly, the more white space the better, think how much (or how little) you could say? It’s up to you and that’s the beauty.

Having said that, I am not against verse in cards at all. Many greetings card manufacturers and designers choose to include verse, because sometimes you just don’t have time to spend penning a mini work of Shakespeare in a 125mm x 125mm space! Sometimes you just can’t find the right words to say and that’s what’s great about buying a card where someone has already taken the time to do it for you.

An interesting resource that is available in association with the Greeting Card Association (GCA) is a project they have set up in conjunction with the Royal Mail. Worth checking out, especially if you are a teacher. It’s designed for 5 – 11 year olds and encourages key English skills, nurtures knowledge of other beliefs and cultures and compliments the art and design curriculum.

And this brilliant timeline illustrates just how important cards are for ‘communicating knowledge over distance or time.’

In conclusion, in whatever form they come in, I think greetings cards are like chicken soup, good for the soul!

For more images you can visit my website